Rob, London I cannot think of anything more dull than chatting to someone on a computer. Internet is not to blame for any divorces.
Surely these same people don't start chatting people up in pubs while they're standing next to their spouse do they? I was in love. The internet is a way out for those that would rather not find their perfect match by getting cupids escorts down at a club.
If more people go online to look for a way out, then there has to be strong underlying causes that should be dealt with, rather than blaming chat rooms. I don't believe online romances work out well. We were both single and now live together and are planning to marry next year. Don't blame the medium!
Read a selection of your comments below. Who can blame people for wanting a bit of excitement in their life? It has never been easier for women to have affairs. So in short, yes it can be divisive and yes it can lead to break ups, though whether there is anything that could or perhaps even should be done about it escort ogden corp another matter.
We were married in December. Why is it you only ever hear about things going wrong with the internet? Liz, UK A lot of the problem is boredom. However, on the other side, your partner can match their requirements better too and won't need you anymore either. I came to really hate the sound of the modem dialling.
With the internet making the globe one big speed dating ad, you have far more chance of getting every requirement met in your shopping list. I met my husband from Yorkshire, UK four years ago in a chat room. We have un spend a lot of time apart in different countries, but thanks to the internet, we are able to stay connected easily and at low cost.
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OK so he norwayy at least honest enough to show them to me but it still made me feel inadequate and unloved, and also caused a of other things in the relationship worsen that we had been able to deal with sufficiently well to stay together until then - but suffice it to say a year later we are no longer together. David, London Let us face it the main reason for divorce or people staying single is the unhwppy culture of the "Me Society".
If that's enough to facilitate the breakdown of a marriage then that relationship was never going to last in mqrried first place. Blaming the chatt for the breakdown in marriages is like blaming an umbrella for the fact that it's raining. In my own case my partner of 5 years started chatting - innocently so he said - on the 'sex boards' for 'bored and married' people, but while he was open about it with me, it only escorts rockville md me anguish and pain to see him flirting with all these other women online and receiving raunchy pictures of them.
Anon, Switzerland No - it is simply being made an excuse by weak-minded philanderers.
Gerry, UK I was in a relationship not married for 12 years and my ex-partner cheated on me with a work colleague. Dave, Cambridge UK Make sure you leave the computer on when you are done, for it will be the only friend you have when this is over. Because the net is one of the few ways in which we can instantly talk to people from different countries, sharing a wide range of views on world events.
Who can blame people for wanting a bit of excitement in their life? Ian P, West Midlands, UK Maybe one should ask what causes people to spend hours talking to people on the Net rather than their partner?
In my chqt case my partner of 5 years started chatting - innocently so he said - on the 'sex boards' for 'bored and married' people, but while he was open about it with me, it only caused me anguish and pain to see him flirting with all these other women online and receiving raunchy pictures of them. Low wages are easier to cope with when you're alone. Anon, Harare, Zimbabwe All those fairy tale princes and princesses out there are of our own making Gerry, UK Real human contact 69 worthing escorts opposed to internet contact is a far richer experience with facial expressions body language and many other forms of rapport adding to the stimulation.
We were both single and now live together and are planning to marry next year. Also, many feel that the grass is always greener on the other side, and this is what tempts them to cheat either on-line or whatever How anyone could even begin to compare a real person in the flesh to some badly spelled lines on a chat room pane hnhappy beyond me.
Is the internet adding argentina girl looking for some chocolate the UK divorce rate?
So put this down as one instance that it has decreased the divorce rate. Neal Worthington, Marlow, NH, USA The internet had clearly replaced and erased our 7 year relationship Katryn, Cumbria Last year I purposely sabotaged my home telephone line in a desperate bid to stop my boyfriend diving on the internet of an evening.
It's clear to see that the internet made it very easy for her to have the affair and it is possible that without the internet she may not have done so, but her marriage was already in trouble, instead of seeking solutions the easy way out for her was an affair through the internet. That marriage is now ending too. What is that all about? Want to sex chat jabaonkow Murphy, Dorset, UK. We keep the computer in the room where we spend most of our time together, and not the back bedroom.
Peter, U. All the internet does is create an opportunity to meet people.